Keys to A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE...

Marriage is a life long partnership between you, your spouse and Jehovah...

Make your Marriage work

 Yours is better than MINE!!!

When you are on the outside looking in all looks great and the moment you look at your situation after peering into that great window, quickly your stuff starts to look insignificant or looks more insignificant in comparison. Well, can I tell you your first mistake? It’s was when you peered in to that great window and the second one was to compared your situation with another and the third and final one in this scenario was to assume you knew something about another’s life by a quick glance.                                                   VS.

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This is my husband Sederick
no one ca take his place  

Many have made the mistake of watching from a far and judging giving a verdict, being it a good one or a bad one… you never really know until you know and you will never truly know until you take yourself out of the lineup. Just because someone seems to be happy or seems to make someone else happy doesn’t mean that they are, and just because someone is covered with financial substance doesn’t mean they are happy either. To many times have you listened to your girlfriends talk about their husband or men your friends talk about their wives sex escapade and home life leaving you walking away feeling like ‘I got the wrong one or what am I doing wrong?’ Your situation is your situation… And theirs is theirs!!! You must begin to ask God for a grateful heart first and then ask him to move in whatever area that seems to be short coming. Still Soap opera watching is what I call it, looking at someone else’s life wondering what it would be like if that was you…this is the reason why reality TV is so popular today because people are always wishing they were somewhere else instead of appreciating who they are and where they are,they don’t realize that this mind state is a hindrance and also holding them and the potential loving relationship they should have with their spouse. Love the spouse you have and don’t compare him or her to anyone else’s.

How would you feel if you could peek into your spouse’s mind and you were not there??? How would you feel if you looked in their heart and there was many people left there from their past or from present random places they may go? 

   I heard a saying that makes sense to me now more than ever before and that is to simply ‘GET YOUR MIND RIGHT!’ and what that means is: day dreaming as a woman or man says you have a lack of tenacity… yes you!  All this time you've been blaming your spouse! Become the change you want to see in another...The fact that you are looking into others live speaks volumes about yours. Day dreaming was fine for you to do as a child because there was little you could do but imagine where you could and would be but as a 30 year old it’s disturbing, this is the time for you to evaluate your situation and take it from there (if you have not already done that). If you want something in life do what you can to make it happen, it’s true something’s just happen and there are something’s you have to work at and marriage is one of those things you have to work at.

   Looking at the celebrity life many of them are caught in the fantasies they sell, actresses and actors are beautiful until they are touchable. In Hollywood, as it is  everywhere when something is untouchable it’s more desirable, it’s something about a cheese burger or donuts when you are fasting, when the fast is over and you are able to have it, it seems that it wasn’t as good as you thought it would be. Glanced upon, it desirable but once you get it, sleep with it and wake up to it well, they kind of realize what seem to be untouchable in fact once obtained they learn it was very ordinary…it only becomes extraordinary love when you are friends at all times and you give your heart to the one that gives the same to you. Many are marrying and divorcing at a rate that is disturbing in Hollywood which further exposes to us that it’s not the stuff that keeps them happy, it may make them happy for a moment but not enough to sustain them no matter how much people tell them they look good together.

   ❤Stop looking in windows and clean up what’s behind yours by…❤

♬ Proverbs 4:23 is our key verse, "Above all else, guard your heart, for it affects everything you do."

You were not designed to be alone but there is a puzzle you fit perfectly with…

♬ “And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet [Hebrew: “fit or suitable”] for him.”

Your spouse should never want avoid you due to stressful circumstance; we are to encourage one another…

♬ Ecclesiastes 4:10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.

Take your eyes off of windows and place them on God

♬ Micah 7:7 But as for me, I will look unto Jehovah; I will wait for the God of my salvation: my God will hear me.

♬ Psalm 121

King James Version         

1. I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.

2. My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth.

3. He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber.

4. Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.

5. The LORD is thy keeper: the LORD is thy shade upon thy right hand.

6. The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.

7. The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.

8. The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.

AMEN…AMEN…AMEN!!! ❤❤❤